When Feedback Fails: Repairing Relationships After Feedback is Ignored 6 | 33
Feedback can be tough to give and at times even harder to receive. But what about when it’s ignored? Jason and Amy tackle a listener's challenging...
On this episode of the Radical Candor podcast, Kim, Jason and Amy discuss the trend of prioritizing future-focused feedforward over backward-looking feedback. Feedback vs. feedforward — both of these words are well-intentioned euphemisms that tend toward either Ruinous Empathy or Manipulative Insincerity. Kim has strong opinions on the words "feedforward" and "feedback." Tune in to find out why one word makes Kim want to put her hands over her ears and the other makes her want to throw up in her mouth.
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There’s been a lot of chatter lately about feedback vs. feedforward. Words matter. We don’t love the word feedback, but because it’s commonly used to show people what to do more of and what to do less of, we use it often.
Does “bad feedback” mean criticism, or does it mean criticism that is badly delivered?
Does “good feedback” mean praise, or praise that is well delivered, or criticism that is well delivered?
Who the hell knows??! Because it’s unknowable. Sloppy language.
The term feedforward is even more problematic because it pretends that we don’t have to understand past mistakes to avoid them in the future. It pretends that we can avoid necessary but uncomfortable conversations.
@wallstreetjournal Feedback too often leaves workers feeling defeated, but a new term—“feedforward”—encourages improvement and development, its proponents say. The canceling of feedback has its share of skeptics. It comes as younger generations—who can prefer a more positive, nurturing environment—are accounting for a larger share of the workforce, and companies increasingly focus on performance and efficiency following a pause on reviews during the pandemic. #feedback #performancereview #feedforward #jobs #work #careers #wsj #thewallstreetjournal #wallstreetjournal #CapCut ♬ Busy office (large enterprise building)(104530) - Killy
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