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On this episode of the Radical Candor podcast, Kim, Amy and Jason discuss terms that are often used interchangeably but actually mean different things: Praise, Recognition, Appreciation and Gratitude. Kim also takes on the role of Don Draper to act out a scene from Mad Men's beloved episode "The Suitcase." Listen to learn why — in most cases — "that's what the money is for" is not sufficient recognition or appreciation. (A deep dive into Peggy and Don's complicated relationship is a whole other glass of whiskey not covered in this episode — but if you haven't watched "The Suitcase," it's a must-see. (Listen to our bonus episode about the writers and actors strikes.)
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Don (Kim): You gave me 20 ideas and I picked out one of them that was a kernel that became that commercial.
Peggy (Jason): But you got the CLIO award!
Don (Kim): It's your job! I give you money, you give me ideas.
Peggy (Jason): And you never say thank you.
Don (Kim): That's what the money's for!
What could Don have done differently to praise, recognize and show Peggy appreciation?
Praise, appreciation, gratitude, and recognition are all related to acknowledging and expressing positive feelings or feedback, but they differ in their nuances and contexts. Here's an overview of their distinctions:
In summary, while praise focuses on approval and admiration for specific accomplishments, appreciation recognizes and values someone's overall contributions or qualities. Gratitude expresses thankfulness for the positive impact someone has had on one's life, and recognition involves acknowledging achievements or efforts in a more formal or public manner. Each of these expressions plays a role in affirming and motivating individuals in different contexts.
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