3 min read

Managers are Burned Out, too 6 | 2

Managers are Burned Out, too 6 | 2

Table of Contents

We talk a lot on this podcast about how managers can ensure their employees stay engaged at work, but what about keeping managers engaged? A boss’s job is to guide a team to achieve results. However, in the current landscape of constant disruptions, this job is feeling impossible for some managers. What’s more, disengaged managers lead to disengaged teams. Is all hope lost?

Listen to the episode:

Radical Candor Podcast: Managers are Burned Out, too

Radical Candor Podcast: Managers Are Burned Out

Being a boss is a challenging job in the best of times, and the best of times these are not. According to Gallup, only 31% of managers are actively engaged and more than 50% are actively seeking new jobs amid declines in employee engagement and wellbeing, record turnover and hiring rates, and an unprecedented increase in hybrid work.

According to the National Institutes of Health, “Burnout is a psychological syndrome emerging as a prolonged response to chronic interpersonal stressors on the job. The three key dimensions of this response are an overwhelming exhaustion, feelings of cynicism and detachment from the job, and a sense of ineffectiveness and lack of accomplishment.”

The Future Forum Pulse report — a survey of almost 11,000 workers across the U.S., Australia, France, Germany, Japan, and the U.K. published in October — found that executives’ sentiment and experience scores had sunk to record lows. Compared to a year ago, execs reported a 15% decline in the working environment, a 20% drop in work-life balance, and a 40% increase in work-related stress and anxiety.

“We’re in the middle of the biggest workplace paradigm shift we’re likely to see in our lifetimes, and leaders are feeling that pressure,” said Sheela Subramanian, vp and co-founder of Future Forum. 

She added that the shifting macroeconomic conditions, the Great Resignation, and the changing demands of employees around flexibility make it “harder to lead with confidence — you can no longer rely on the old leadership playbooks.”

Radical Candor Podcast Checklist: Managers are Burned Out, too

 

@emilybruth Burnout forces us to ask, "what's the point?" Rewards for effort are not the same as they used to be and you can feel it in the spirit of employees ❤️‍ #burnout #worklifebalance #capitalism ♬ original sound - Emily Ballesteros

 
 

1. Practice radical self-care. Caring for others starts with caring for yourself. Don't beat yourself up or feel guilty for feeling burned out. Give yourself the break you need. You can't possibly care personally about others if you don't care about yourself. And if you are feeling burned out, you need to care about yourself more. So when a mentor of mine said if I am feeling burnt out or if I'm in an especially stressful time, I work out twice a day, not once a day. So do more self care not less when you're feeling burned out.

2. You don't have to do it alone. Seek community if you're a manager. Find a mentor,  coach, peer group or other people who are going through similar things as you for guidance community, and most

3. If you're not a manager, and you think your manager is dealing with burnout, or you're dealing with burnout yourself, tips one and two apply equally well to you. And I think sometimes it can be easy to imagine that if you just focus on the work that's the thing that's going to help your boss the most. But we'd argue that focusing on yourself and making sure that you're coming to work with energy and excitement has an equal if not bigger impact on the burnout that others around you are feeling.

Radical Candor Podcast Resources: Managers are Burned Out, too

 

@corporate.sween They don’t know what day it is #corporate #corporatelife #corporatetiktok #saleshumor #manager #managersbelike #burnout #burntout ♬ original sound - corporate sween

 

 
Have questions about Radical Candor? Let's talk >>
————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————–

Episodes are written and produced by Brandi Neal with script editing by Amy Sandler. The show features Radical Candor co-founders Kim Scott and Jason Rosoff and is hosted by Amy Sandler. Nick Carissimi is our audio engineer.

The Radical Candor Podcast theme music was composed by Cliff Goldmacher. Order his book: The Reason For The Rhymes: Mastering the Seven Essential Skills of Innovation by Learning to Write Songs.

 

Key Questions Covered

How widespread is manager burnout right now?

The numbers are striking. According to Gallup, only 31% of managers are actively engaged at work, and more than 50% are actively seeking new jobs. A Future Forum Pulse survey of nearly 11,000 workers found that executives reported a 15% decline in their working environment, a 20% drop in work-life balance, and a 40% increase in work-related stress and anxiety compared to the prior year. The combination of the Great Resignation, hybrid work shifts, and macroeconomic uncertainty has made the traditional leadership playbook feel obsolete.

What is burnout, exactly?

According to the National Institutes of Health, burnout is a psychological syndrome that emerges as a prolonged response to chronic interpersonal stressors on the job. It has three key dimensions: overwhelming exhaustion, feelings of cynicism and detachment from the job, and a sense of ineffectiveness and lack of accomplishment. It's not just being tired — it's a sustained state that affects how you show up for yourself and the people you lead.

What can burned-out managers do to recover?

The Radical Candor podcast offers two core tips. First, practice radical self-care — don't feel guilty for being burned out. You can't care personally about others if you don't care about yourself first. One counterintuitive tip: do more self-care when stressed, not less (e.g., working out twice a day instead of once). Second, don't go it alone. Seek out a mentor, coach, or peer group of other managers dealing with similar challenges for guidance and community support.

Does manager burnout affect the whole team?

Yes — and significantly. The episode makes clear that disengaged managers lead directly to disengaged teams. A manager's energy, presence, and sense of purpose set the tone for everyone around them. When a manager is burned out, it ripples outward, affecting morale, productivity, and overall team wellbeing. That's why addressing manager burnout isn't just a personal issue — it's a leadership and organizational health issue.

What should employees do if they think their manager is burned out?

The same two tips that apply to managers — practicing self-care and seeking community — apply equally to individual contributors. It can be tempting to think that simply focusing harder on the work will help a burned-out boss, but the podcast argues that showing up with your own energy and enthusiasm has an equal or even greater positive impact on those around you. Taking care of yourself is one of the most team-oriented things you can do.

Why is it harder to lead with confidence today than in the past?

According to Sheela Subramanian, VP and co-founder of Future Forum, we're in the middle of the biggest workplace paradigm shift most leaders will see in their lifetimes. Shifting macroeconomic conditions, the Great Resignation, record turnover, and employees' evolving demands around flexibility mean managers can no longer rely on old leadership playbooks. This uncertainty — combined with pressure from above and below — makes it genuinely harder to lead with confidence and clarity.

Keep going.

Three ways to put this into practice.

Apply what you've learned Get personalized coaching with Compass
Your AI-powered Radical Candor coach. Free to try.
Used by managers at Apple, Dropbox, and Twitter Try Compass free
Stay sharp More like this, every week
Practical leadership tips in your inbox.
Join 25,000+ leaders Subscribe free
For your whole team Bring Radical Candor to your organization
Workshops, keynotes, and rollouts for teams of 50+.
Trusted by 100+ Fortune 500 leadership teams Talk to our team

EXPLORE MORE FROM RADICAL CANDOR

What Do Managers (of Small Teams) Do Anyways? 4 | 15

What Do Managers (of Small Teams) Do Anyways? 4 | 15

What do bosses do anyways? On this episode of the Radical Candor podcast, we're starting a new series of episodes to answer that question! Is it a...

Read More
Succession Problems (Who Wants to Be a Manager?) 6 | 14

Succession Problems (Who Wants to Be a Manager?) 6 | 14

Let's play, 'who wants to be a manager?!' We’ve talked about knowing whether or not being a manager is right for you and manager burnout, but what...

Read More
Managing Managers: How to Navigate the Jump from Manager to Director 7 | 32

Managing Managers: How to Navigate the Jump from Manager to Director 7 | 32

What do you do when you suddenly have to manage managers? Kim, Jason, and Amy respond to a real-life leadership curveball: what happens when you...

Read More