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Challenging Directly During a Crisis 2 | 3

In its most basic form, Radical Candor is a framework to facilitate communication that is kind, clear, specific and sincere. It’s about being able to Care Personally and Challenge Directly at the same time. While this kind of communication is always important for building trust and maintaining relationships, it’s even more important during a crisis when anxieties are heightened and everything is uncertain. Kim, Jason and Amy unpack how to Challenge Directly during a crisis without losing your humanity.

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The Radical Candor Checklist

Tip 1: Enter the conversation from a place of curiosity versus judgment — you can’t hold curiosity and judgment at the same time.

Tip 2: Remember, the secret to productivity during a pandemic is to do less.

Tip 3: Manage your own emotions: figure out what’s yours, what’s theirs, and what really matters.

Tip 4: Don’t call people names. Remember the Center for Creative Leadership’s SBI Model. SBI means:

  • Situation: context or a specific situation in which a behavior manifested.
  • Behavior: the behavior you are seeing that is not ideal (in this case) or the behavior you are seeing that is leading to success (in the case of praise).
  • Impact: the articulation of the Impact of the behavior.

Highlights

Pretending that everything is business as usual when working during a crisis will create more problems than it will solve. Whether you’re a manager, a coach or an individual contributor, be honest with yourself and others about what you’re capable of accomplishing and what you need to stop doing. While this sounds easy and maybe even obvious, it’s much more difficult than it seems because it goes against basic human instincts.

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FAQs

How do you Challenge Directly during a crisis without being harsh?

The key is to enter every conversation from a place of curiosity rather than judgment — you literally cannot hold both at the same time. Radical Candor reminds us that Challenging Directly must always be paired with Caring Personally. During a crisis, that means being honest about what's realistic, managing your own emotions first, and using specific, behavior-focused feedback (not labels or name-calling) so the other person feels supported rather than attacked.

What is the SBI Model and how does it help with direct feedback?

SBI stands for Situation, Behavior, and Impact — a model from the Center for Creative Leadership. When giving feedback, you describe the specific Situation in which a behavior occurred, the observable Behavior itself (not a personality judgment), and the Impact that behavior had. This structure keeps feedback concrete and impersonal, making it easier for the recipient to hear and act on — especially important when emotions are already running high during a crisis.

Why is pretending everything is 'business as usual' during a crisis a problem?

Pretending normalcy during a crisis creates more problems than it solves. It sets unrealistic expectations, erodes trust, and ignores the very real emotional and logistical toll a crisis takes on a team. Radical Candor encourages honesty — with yourself and others — about what you're actually capable of accomplishing. Being transparent about capacity and priorities is a form of Caring Personally, even if it feels counterintuitive or goes against the instinct to project confidence.

What does 'the secret to productivity during a crisis is to do less' mean?

During a crisis like a pandemic, trying to maintain a full pre-crisis workload is often counterproductive. The Radical Candor framework suggests that true productivity means being honest about constraints and deliberately narrowing your focus. Doing fewer things well — rather than spreading yourself thin across everything — leads to better outcomes, less burnout, and more sustainable performance for both individuals and teams.

How should managers handle their own emotions before challenging someone directly during a crisis?

Before initiating a difficult conversation during a crisis, take time to sort out what emotions belong to you, which belong to the other person, and which are a shared reaction to the situation. Radical Candor emphasizes managing your own emotions first so you can show up with clarity and empathy rather than reactivity. This self-awareness is what allows you to Challenge Directly without losing your humanity — or making the other person feel unfairly targeted.

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