In its most basic form, Radical Candor is a framework to facilitate communication that is kind, clear, specific and sincere. It’s about being able to Care Personally and Challenge Directly at the same time. While this kind of communication is always important for building trust and maintaining relationships, it’s even more important during a crisis when anxieties are heightened and everything is uncertain. Kim, Jason and Amy unpack how to Challenge Directly during a crisis without losing your humanity.
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The Radical Candor Checklist
Tip 1: Enter the conversation from a place of curiosity versus judgment — you can’t hold curiosity and judgment at the same time.
Tip 2: Remember, the secret to productivity during a pandemic is to do less.
Tip 3: Manage your own emotions: figure out what’s yours, what’s theirs, and what really matters.
Tip 4: Don’t call people names. Remember the Center for Creative Leadership’s SBI Model. SBI means:
- Situation: context or a specific situation in which a behavior manifested.
- Behavior: the behavior you are seeing that is not ideal (in this case) or the behavior you are seeing that is leading to success (in the case of praise).
- Impact: the articulation of the Impact of the behavior.
Highlights
Pretending that everything is business as usual when working during a crisis will create more problems than it will solve. Whether you’re a manager, a coach or an individual contributor, be honest with yourself and others about what you’re capable of accomplishing and what you need to stop doing. While this sounds easy and maybe even obvious, it’s much more difficult than it seems because it goes against basic human instincts.
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What is Radical Candor?
New to Radical Candor? Here’s the quick and dirty on how to Care Personally and Challenge Directly to do the best work of your life and build the best relationships of your career.
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- An hour of hilarious content about a team whose feedback fails are costing them business, delivered over 5 episodes.
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